My blog “What Define’s Me ?” is a personal tale of my struggles and triumphs. Of a mom who has had her share of battles ranging from cervical cancer to being the victim of domestic violence. I started my blog three years ago in hopes to have a voice. Being a submissive wife for many years left me without one. I was unable to verbally stand up for myself. I made a promise to never reread or correct my thoughts. To never question whose feelings I may hurt but to simple get my own feelings out. To let myself know it was okay to speak up and to defend myself. I share of my new found love and how it has uplifted me in many ways! I share of our journey’s and adventures. I sometimes share of my cooking experiences as that is what I am skilled at.